Ramadan Supplication Series: Qualities of a True Servant
Bismillah
What qualities come to your mind when you think of a servant of Allah? In one of my favorite supplications, the Prophet sal ALlahu alayhi wa sallam teaches us some of the characteristics of a real worshiper of Allah. This supplication is narrated in many books of hadith, of them: Musnad Imam Ahmad, ibn Majah and Abu Dawud. Ibn Abbass (radi Allahu anhuma) narrated that the Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) used to supplicate:
رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي لَكَ شَكَّارًا ، لَكَ ذَكَّارًا ، لَكَ رَهَّابًا ، لَكَ مِطْوَاعًا ،لَكَ مُخْبِتًا ،إِلَيْكَ أَوَّاهًا مُنِيبًا
Rabbi ja’alnī laka shakkāra, laka dhakkāra, laka rahhāba, laka miṭwā’a, laka mukhbitan, ilayka awwāhan munība
O my Lord, make me deeply grateful to You, constantly remembering You, in great fear and awe of You, devoted to Your Obedience, humble, penitent and ever-turning to You in repentance.
Audio
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Selected Word Analysis
Shakkāran: From the root shakara, which was explained here linguistically. This word is intensified, known as mubalaghah in the Arabic language. The word is on the structure of fa’āl, meaning someone who does something over and over, again and again. An example of this is the nickname given to Musaylimah, Al-Kath-thāb, not just someone who lies, but lies all the time. The Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) did not ask Allah to make him a shākir, someone who is thankful and grateful, but rather shakkāran, someone who is always thanking Allah on a regular basis.
Dhakkāran: From the root dhakara, or dhikr. Dhikr literally means a reminder or a mention. Again, this word is intensified on the structure of fa’āl, so not just someone who remembers Allah but someone who is always in the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal. Dhikr can refer to remembrances like saying “subhanAllah” (Glorified is Allah), or supplications, or prayer or any other act of worship.
Rahhāban: From the root rahb, rahb is a type of fear that makes you very alert, very careful and does not let you relax. This is the type of fear that students feel during exam time: restless, careful, and concern for passing. It is also fear that you are afraid that you will disappoint the one you love. The believers have both rahbah (fear) and raghbah (hope) in Allah azza wa jal. This word is on the structure of fa’āl, one who is very fearful of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala.
Miṭwā’an: From the root ṭā’ah, which means obedience. From this root comes the meaning of obeying willingly, out of happiness and full acceptance of the command. This word is on the structure of mif’āl (mubalaghah) which means to do something so much that it becomes a habit. Miṭwā’an is someone who habitually obeys Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala.
Mukhbitan: From the root khabata, which literally means to be hidden. When in reference to people, it means to have khushu’ (humility in the heart that manifests itself in the limbs). It is also means to have iṭmi’nān, to be in a complete state of satisfaction. When someone is mukhbit, they are humble to Allah and satisfied with Him.
Awwāhan: From the root awaha, which literally means to sigh - we still use this today when we say, “aaah”. It is used to describe when someone is sad or shocked. It is also used for someone who cries a lot due to a soft heart. In this duaa, it takes the meaning of someone is lowly, very humble, compassionate and soft-hearted. The structure of this word is fa’āl.
Munīban: From the word anāba, which literally means to return or turn back. Inābah is sometimes used interchangebly with tawbah, returning and repenting to Allah. Munīb is someone who continually turns back to Allah in repentance.
Points of Benefit
Always aim high when making duaa to Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala). The Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) taught us here to ask Allah to make us the BEST slaves to Him, with the most beautiful qualities of a true believer. Don’t ask Allah to just make you “shaakir”, but ask Him to make you shakkara!
Let’s look at how these qualities appear in the Qur’an and Sunnah:
Shakkāran: Read a detailed explanation of Shukr here.
Dhakkāran: Whenever Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala mentions remembering Him in the Qur’an, it follows with “katheera”, a lot. The believer remembers Allah a lot. When we think of constant remembrance, it doesn’t mean that we are always making tasbih (saying subhanAllah) or always praying, but rather you can easily be in constant remembrance by learning and saying the supplications from the Sunnah for various actions. We have supplications for waking up, going to sleep, going to the bathroom, before praying, before eating, after eating, going up the stairs, traveling, and many more! Dhikr is the cleansing agent of the heart. The best dhikr is prayer, then reading Qur’an outside of prayer. Dhikr is one of the easiest deeds and it is one of the most rewarding. Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala tells us about someone who turns away from His Remembrance: “And whoever is blinded from remembrance of the Most Merciful - We appoint for him a devil, and he is to him a companion.” (43:36) When we leave the dhikr of Allah, we are exposed to the whispers of the Devil.
Rahhāban: Allah azza wa jal describes Zakariyah and his family (alayhim salaam): “(and they used to) supplicate to Us in hope and fear.” (21:90) Having the fear and awe of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala helps us to worship Him better. When Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala reminds us of His Oneness, He says: “And Allah said (O mankind!): “Take not two gods in worship. Verily, Allah is the only One Deity. Then, fear Me (rahbah) much.” (16:51) Fear has somewhat of a negative connotation in our use of the word but when we talk about fear of Allah, it is a positive fear that leads to good deeds. How can we learn to fear and be in awe of Allah? By learning His Names and Attributes. Know that Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala is Al-Qahhar (The One who subdues His creation as He pleases), Al-’Azeez (The Most Powerful and Honorable in His Might), Al-’Adheem (The Magnificent).
People are different and reminders affect people differently. Some people are motivated by the Love of Allah, while others are pushed to action by the Fear of Allah. Allah azza wa jal says,
فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ
“And whoever is removed away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise, he indeed is successful.” (3:185) “Zuhziha” here means to be removed from something with force, and “adkhil” means made to enter. There are people who are pushed away forcefully from the fire and are made to be led to Paradise by the fear of Allah and through His continual forgiveness of our sins.
Mukhbitan: Allah azza wa jal says, “And give good news to the Mukhbitoon!” (22:34) Shaykh Muhammad al-Shanqiti explains who these people are in his tafsir Adhwa’ al-Bayan: “they are those who humble themselves to Allah and are at peace in their hearts with Him (as their Lord). They are those who when they hear Allah being mentioned or remembered, their hearts fill with fear and awe of Him.” Being humble is internalizing the fact that without Allah we could not have done any good. It is remembering your lowly beginning. When making supplication, it is important to call upon Allah as a humble slave who is in real need of Him. Unfortunately, in today’s society, being humble means you are a weak person. Humility only makes the believer better, as the Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) told us, “whoever humbles himself to Allah, Allah will raise him.” (Muslim)
Awwāhan: Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala describes Ibrahim (alayhi salaam) as Awwāhan in two places in the Qur’an, (9:114) and (13:18). Imam Sa’di (rahimahullah) explains that this description means that he (alayhi salaam) was continually returning and turning back to Allah in all of his affairs and he was one who supplicated to Allah, remembered Him, repented to Him and sought forgiveness a lot.
Munīban: Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala also describes Ibrahim (alayhi salaam) as munīb, one is always turning back and repenting to Allah. It is beautiful that this duaa, after asking Allah to instill in us such beautiful qualities, ends with two words that point to being repentant. We learn from this that repentance isn’t only for those who commit major sins, but we must always be repentant to Allah.
we ask Allah to bless us with these qualities and to make us true servants to Him. Ameen.
Amatullah | Duaa Series | 08 12th, 2011 |
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Salaam u alaikum wr wb, can u plz share the dua before starting our prayer.
Barakallah fik! Beautiful dua.
Beautiful dua! SubhanAllah
asalamu alaykum,
jazakum Allahu khayran for the comments.
Zainab, from what I know of, there isn’t a duaa that you say before starting prayer. However there are duaas for after prayer, you can find them here: makedua.com
I think she means the dhikr before prayer as you mentioned in the paragraph explaining Dhakkara.
Yes I understood what she meant, there isn’t a duaa from the sunnah for starting prayer that I am aware of. Allah knows best.
1. Have the scholars explained the wisdom why Allah subhanwataala mentioned He is all hearing, although the verse is relating to hijab. What is the relationship between His attribute of bieng “All seeing” and this verse.
Surah nur ayah 60 :And women of post-menstrual age who have no desire for marriage - there is no blame upon them for putting aside their outer garments [but] not displaying adornment. But to modestly refrain [from that] is better for them. And Allah is Hearing and Knowing.
2.
In verse 18 of surah Zukhruf Allah subhanwataala says: a creature brought up in adornments and who in dispute cannot make herself clear.
The verse is talking about females, then what is the wisdom behind Allah subhanwataala using the masculine, e.g why didnt He use “tunash-shauu” “hiya” and “ghayru mubeenah”?
3. In Surah Ale Imraan although it is still reffering to the bayyinaat but Jaa’ahum is used, whereas in Surah al Baqarah it is Jaa’at-hum. Why is there a difference?
وَلاَ تَكُونُواْ كَالَّذِينَ تَفَرَّقُواْ وَاخْتَلَفُواْ مِن بَعْدِ مَا جَاءهُمُ الْبَيِّنَاتُ وَأُوْلَـئِكَ لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ عَظِيمٌ
كَانَ النَّاسُ أُمَّةً وَاحِدَةً فَبَعَثَ اللَّهُ النَّبِيِّينَ مُبَشِّرِينَ وَمُنْذِرِينَ وَأَنْزَلَ مَعَهُمُ الْكِتَابَ بِالْحَقِّ لِيَحْكُمَ بَيْنَ النَّاسِ فِيمَا اخْتَلَفُوا فِيهِ ۚ وَمَا اخْتَلَفَ فِيهِ إِلَّا الَّذِينَ أُوتُوهُ مِنْ بَعْدِ مَا جَاءَتْهُمُ الْبَيِّنَاتُ بَغْيًا بَيْنَهُمْ ۖ فَهَدَى اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لِمَا اخْتَلَفُوا فِيهِ مِنَ الْحَقِّ بِإِذْنِهِ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يَهْدِي مَنْ يَشَاءُ إِلَىٰ صِرَاطٍ مُسْتَقِيمٍ
4. What is the difference , between Mursaloon, and Rusul? What is the wisdom behind using mursaloon in some verses and rusul in others.
5. What is the difference between Rayb and Miryah, in english they both get translated as doubt, what is the wisdom behind using rayb in some verses and miryah in others.
6. قَالَ رَبِّ نَجِّنِى مِنَ الْقَوْمِ الظَّـلِمِينَ
What’s the difference between rabbee and rabbi. Even though this word doesnt not end with yaa it still means “My lord”? Is rabbi only used in duas?
7. Allah subahanwataala mentions lahw and la’ib in many verses, sometimes lahw comes before and vice versa, do we know the wisdom behind when lahw precedes la’ib and vice versa
8. in surah rum ayah 23 Allah mentions sleeping at night, and day for seeking bounty and these are ayaat for those who listen. what is the relationship between people who listen and sleeping at night and seeking bounty
Jazaakallahukhairan
could you please email me if you know any of the answers
walikumassalam
sorry my comment was very unrelated but I didnt know where else to contact you.
jazakAllahukhairn
asalamu alaykum,
wow mashaAllah, many questions! I’ll need some time to answer them since it’s Ramadan now but bi’ithnillah I will do my best to get them. Allah knows best.
jazakAllahukhairan
yes inshAllah nothing urgent, but I’ve been looking for answers to these for a very long time :), i dint know who else to ask
Assalam walaikum
Beautiful dua. I don’t think the transliteration matches the Arabic or the audio.
Rabbi ja’alnī laka shakkāra, laka dhakkāra, laka rahhāba, laka miṭwā’a, laka mukhbitan, ilayka awwāhan munība.
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullah,
Yes there is a mistake, jazakillahu khayran for pointing it out. it is fixed now.
i got the answer to number 1. :)
http://understandingthequranmiracle.blogspot.com/2011/08/precision-of-verse-endings-in-quran.html
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
There are some personal duas I’d like to make in Arabic. Feel free to get the reward every time I say it…by helping me if you want.
How do you say “My Lord make me Al-Atqa_(the person with the most taqwa)
Would it just be, “Rabbi jaalni Al Atqa?
and make me the person who gives, fears and sudaqabilhusna
http://quran.com/92
This is so that the path to the best Jannah is made easiest.
JazzakAllahu khairun kathiran
wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu brother Mahmud,
my apologies for the late reply, I only saw your comment now.
You can say, Allahumma ja’alni min al-mutaqeen (plural).
This would be a better duaa since the person with the most taqwa is the Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam), as he mentioned in an authentic narration.
Also remember that your supplications do not have to be in Arabic. Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala hears and understands all languages (as He ta’ala created them).
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
JazzakALlahhu khairun kathiran.
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
I read read that the person with the most Taqwa is Abu Bakr from Tafsir of Ibn Kathir online. Also, I remember listening to Nouman Ali Khan’s tafsir on Surah Al-Layl and I remember he mentioned it as well. So inshaa Allah it is possible to have the most taqwa. We should always ask with the best asking and ask Allah to prevent us from exceeding the limit. If even Noah alayhisalam made that mistake of all people, we are far more likely to.
Wasssalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh